Our marriage was arranged and solemnised in our village in Nagaur district with no formal registration or invitation card. What counts as proof for the court?
Common in rural Rajasthan. Courts accept a combination: joint affidavits confirming the marriage, affidavits from family members or community elders who attended, any ceremony photographs however informal, and any official document referencing the marital relationship — a joint bank account, government form, or ration card. No single document is mandatory; we build the strongest set from what you have.
Does Jodhpur being the seat of the Rajasthan High Court give its Family Court any advantage or faster process?
Not procedurally — Jodhpur's Family Court functions under Section 13B exactly like every other Rajasthan court. It's typically faster than Jaipur simply because it carries a smaller caseload, not because of the High Court's presence. Worth considering if it's a valid option for your case.
We live in Alwar and my husband works in Gurugram. Should we file in Rajasthan or Haryana?
Both can have valid jurisdiction depending on the facts — Alwar if your last shared residence was there, Gurugram if that's his established current residence. The practical question is which is easier for both of you to attend twice; Alwar is usually closer with shorter listing times. We confirm the strongest fit for your addresses.
We've agreed on everything except alimony — she wants more than I can afford monthly. Can we file while this is pending?
No — settlement terms must be fully agreed before First Motion, where the court confirms them on record. Filing with a disputed figure stalls the hearing or forces a return for revision. Resolve the number first; a structured conversation, sometimes with a mediator, often closes the gap faster than a standoff. Read more on how alimony works in mutual divorce.
We've been separated two years with a daughter living with my wife. Can the custody arrangement specify school holidays and video calls?
Yes, and it should. "Child stays with the mother, father gets reasonable access" raises questions at First Motion. Specify primary residence, the visit schedule across weekends and holidays, contact frequency, expense division, and how disputes get resolved. Courts approve detailed arrangements without revision in clean cases — we draft this as part of the settlement stage.
Are some Rajasthan courts conservative about granting the cooling-off waiver?
Partly true. The waiver is discretionary even when the 18-month condition is met, and individual judges vary. Jaipur, with higher filing volume, applies the precedent more consistently; smaller district courts sometimes need a more carefully argued application or prefer to let the six months run. We calibrate based on the specific court handling your case.
We're Hindu but from different Rajasthani communities with customary divorce practices. Does that affect the Section 13B process?
No — Section 13B applies to all Hindus regardless of community, and customary divorce doesn't replace or bypass it. A community-level separation has no legal standing for remarriage, passport status, or property — only a Family Court decree achieves legal dissolution.
We're both working professionals in Jaipur and don't want multiple leave days. How many court appearances are actually needed?
Two — the statutory minimum, no way around it. Everything else is handled online and remotely. Jaipur's hearings typically complete within the listed session barring adjournments, so one day off per hearing is the realistic ask.
My husband now wants to reconcile after First Motion was already filed six months ago. What happens?
Either spouse can withdraw consent any time before the Second Motion order is passed — if he does at Second Motion, the court cannot grant the decree and the petition fails. You'd then assess a contested petition under Section 13 on applicable grounds, a longer process. A formal legal notice documenting his change of position creates a useful paper trail. See what to do when your spouse is not agreeing to divorce.